Patience may be a virtue…but it is far from my greatest skill. Years ago, there was a study involving kids and marshmallows. The kids were told they could either eat the marshmallow -or- if they waited until the adult returned, they would be rewarded with a second marshmallow. The study was meant to establish the effect of patience had on success.
Needless to say…I would have eaten the marshmallow…second one be darned.
However, what I am learning as I follow God to the promises He has spoken over my life is that patience is very often a requirement. Think about it:
- Abraham had to wait 25 years
- Joseph had to wait 13 years
- David had to wait 20 years
Think about God’s chosen people in the desert. He had already promised them the land that lay before them…all they had to do was fight for it. But, in Exodus 23:29, God lets them know, “I will not force them out of your way in one year. Otherwise, the land would be deserted, and wild animals would take over.”
Often, God calls us to a period of waiting before we see our promise.
- Perhaps we are not ready
- Perhaps those we lead are not ready
- Perhaps the promise is not ready
Whatever the reason, we must trust that God will do what He said He will do…whether it takes a day or a lifetime.


